KGF Counselling Philosophy…
Holistic mental health counselling for adults and professionals
Kindness · Grace · Faith
KGF Counselling provides a modern, holistic space to explore the 'whole self' beneath the conditioning
This means I do not create a strict, stuffy environment where I am a ‘blank slate’ counsellor who is the ‘expert’ on your life.
Our therapeutic relationship will be integral to your process, we will work on your journey ‘together’.
You will not repeatedly be asked ‘how do you feel about that’… ‘clients’ are not referred to as ‘patients’.
‘Teletherapy’ is offered , if you have internet connection and a technology device you do not have the need to travel.
I will facilitate and guide your process, helping you manage the presenting issue and offer tips and knowledge that will help you become equipped in your journey to authenticity.
With guidance you will work on your process to help implement action outside of the counselling session where you begin to see change take place.
Faith and Spirituality can be incorporated in the therapeutic journey. Through experience, Psychology without Spirituality can be an incomplete process.
KGF Therapeutic Values
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01. Enjoying everyday life
Repeating destructive patterns of behaviours becomes a vicious cycle, wanting or hoping for change yet continuing with the same pattern can lead to frustration, angst, anger, depression or stress. Not knowing ‘why’ you are feeling a certain way can lead to up unhappiness, whereby, living a life that looks fine on the outside yet miserable on the inside. The battlefield of the mind can be overcome to enjoy everyday life, including mundane tasks such as daily cooking and cleaning, going to work or running a household. With the aid of counselling we work on shifting the mind-set, removing layers to explore root cause of the issue using therapeutic models and help you on your path to enjoying everyday life.
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02. Time and dedication in Counselling is time well spent
If you are committed on working on your mental health to better wellbeing and maintaining a healthier state of mind, the process will enable you to also be of benefit to your friends and family. Having healthier relationships by raising your awareness, discovering your authentic self and being open-minded. By gaining knowledge and tips using therapeutic strategies you can apply these tips to patterns of relating with friends or family members. You will have the skills to be able to maintain balance and wellbeing.
Learning to journal regularly, by reflecting on your inner growth during counselling and noticing changes in yourself such as boundary setting are examples of working on your process. Documenting the journey and beyond will be of profound use to you as this will enable you to help clear the ‘mental mess’ that gets stored in the mind that can cause anxiety or trauma.
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03. Respecting differences and diversity
I enjoy working with clients from different backgrounds and am most respectful of diversity and differences. Working with individuals in a holistic manner can incorporate spirituality or faith if you so wish. Fostering an environment where clients feel comfortable, absent of judgement, experiencing empathy and unconditional regard. My experience ranges with clients from different backgrounds and an understanding of cultural influences. This knowledge, experience and understanding lends itself to Eastern cultures and societies which has helped inform my work with diverse clients.
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04. ‘Kindness, Grace, Faith’ philosophy
This therapeutic service bestows the concepts of ‘Kindness, Grace and Faith’.
‘’Kindness… the quality of being kind …is to treat someone with kindness and consideration.’’
Thus being kind to yourself and having trust in the therapeutic process.
‘’Grace… a quality of behaviour that is polite and pleasant and deserves respect.’’
Allowing yourself the Grace to be accepting of your journey.
‘’Faith…trust in somebody’s ability of knowledge.’’
Believe and having Faith in your process.
Faith and Spirituality make up my values. Complimenting my beliefs in providing holistic counselling.
Psychology and Spirituality, in my experience transcend each other in aiding the journey to a more authentic self.
Spirituality can be thought of as a search, a process to discover.
This aligns with the process of psychology and managing mental health issues in my work.
You may find it helpful to explore your beliefs, values, childhood and whether that was informed by Faith.
A space for you to explore your thoughts about the Higher Power and what that means for you.
My belief is Psychology and Spirituality is a combination of the 'whole self'.
"Psychology and Spirituality are combined in helping heal clients at KGF Counselling".
How will I know what you’re going through?
We will work together
Each individual’s blueprint is unique, by using professional therapeutic techniques and models I can empathise with your struggles and apply skills to help on your journey towards balanced wellbeing. Not having gone through exactly what you may have or are does not mean I would not know how to help. Through training, skills and being open-minded the therapeutic journey is facilitated, as opposed to providing ‘advice’ or ‘telling you what to do’. The therapeutic relationship ultimately will enable you to eventually seek your path in an autonomous way. The client normally always knows what they want, they may just need some help during the process to help think clearly in getting through the presenting issue. I may be the mental health professional, but you are the expert on yourself. So, we work together therapeutically to help you along your process.
I value your privacy
I am GDPR compliant
The GDPR replaced the 1998 Data Protection Act, this ensures that your private, personal confidential data is kept securely and maintained in a way that you have agreed too. Data may include your name, address or specific medical condition. This will also cover any notes that I may make however notes will only be made if you agree to me making notes in the session which will then be kept in a locked cabinet. GDPR protects your rights as a consumer of a service that may involve your identifiable data.
Records will be kept for up to 6 years as advised by the Insurer’s, in the event of a claim the Statute of Limitations apply. Beyond this time records will be destroyed by confidential shredding. The actions of law prescribe period of limitation of up to 6 years for certain actions.
My approach to ethics…
The ethics of my practice is reviewed by my Supervisor who provides another layer of expertise that informs my work. That being said, client confidentiality is of the utmost importance and personal details are not shared in Supervision, client anonymity is respected. I abide by the ethical frameworks of membership bodies that ensure both I, the counsellor and the client are safeguarded and that my practice is deemed ethical, impartial and confidential. Respectful appreciation of all faiths and cultures with experience of working with clients from different backgrounds. Differences and diversity is an inclusive aspect of my practice, the client’s therapeutic journey is respected, including if they so wish to explore faith and spirituality as part of their process. Continued professional development (CPD) is adhered to in line with membership bodies requirements to further enhance knowledge and remain equipped with mental health strategies.
Do you think we’d be a good fit?
I appreciate it can be difficult to reach out to a stranger about mental health, my hope is if you feel called to and or perceive a good vibe about KGF Counselling do not hesitate to contact me. I’ll help answer questions you may have and we can talk about how counselling may be helpful for you.